你將矛頭縮細再抽準唔代表你講既野係valid
好高興你發現自己有社交技巧問題而有打算去改善
而我除左覺得language barrier 難break 之外冇覺得有咩社交問題,至少同same language既人冇社交問題仲識到好多朋友,你講你遇到既社交技巧問題係咪其實想講你唔熟佢地個cultural, social norm令到你read 唔到佢個social cue呀? for eg. 係香港small talk會比人話你係口水佬,係英國唔small talk會比人覺得你冇禮貌呢個已經係social norm既difference,唔係社交技巧問題。有d野有諗深幾層唔太over simplified, over generalisation, avoid label tagging
最後多謝你有留意開我講野(shocked
),我講野kam唔kam睇topic 睇心情啦,呢度連登呀師兄