個作者真係睇得好透下
我同ex分手真係因為我needy
雖然一開始我用technique 追到佢（扮唔needy)
但時間一長係會出事
[紙上談兵] 男神同毒撚既分別
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個作者真係睇得好透下
我同ex分手真係因為我needy
雖然一開始我用technique 追到佢（扮唔needy)
但時間一長係會出事
個作者真係睇得好透下
我同ex分手真係因為我needy
雖然一開始我用technique 追到佢（扮唔needy)
但時間一長係會出事
膚淺+唔用腦，咁容易就generalize人label人，低汁男spotted,呢個post所有人都學到野，唔關毒唔毒撚事。
個標題夠話人毒撚
唔見你出聲？呢個po明明就係比毒撚睇
佢一邊教人點踩單車 同踩單車既原理
但對於本身就識踩單車既人黎講
佢知唔知個原理又有咩分別？
篇野就係比唔識溝女既人睇 而呢種人係社會上就係叫毒撚 你有咩不滿？
唔好一邊label我 一邊叫我唔好label人
唔見你出聲？呢個po明明就係比毒撚睇
佢一邊教人點踩單車 同踩單車既原理
但對於本身就識踩單車既人黎講
佢知唔知個原理又有咩分別？
篇野就係比唔識溝女既人睇 而呢種人係社會上就係叫毒撚 你有咩不滿？
唔好一邊label我 一邊叫我唔好label人
毒撚同男神分別係樣
講黎晒氣，you deserve it
其實我覺得唔再笑人毒果陣
就証明你唔係毒撚了
之前睇過本書
話一個人愈用力攻擊一樣野，佢就係果樣野
因為人係會試圖反對果樣野，黎証明自己唔係果樣野
有冇人明
就証明你唔係毒撚了
之前睇過本書
話一個人愈用力攻擊一樣野，佢就係果樣野
因為人係會試圖反對果樣野，黎証明自己唔係果樣野
有冇人明
我都覺
同女人講道理真係晒氣
同女人講道理真係晒氣
上面有例子，個冇用港男
這一位 不理睬 但我愛 就像我喜歡他 是為他不理我
女仔越chur, 價值也越低
你唔好衝出黎柒啦，樓主係鬼label人generalize人，屌係到賴醒，你話社會上唔識溝女既人就叫毒撚，你呢句就已經係盲目唔用腦思考好快5秒就generalize晒呢班人。
點解唔深入諗下點解唔識溝女=毒撚?係純粹因為聽得多社會上既stereotype定係個班人真係所謂既”毒”?你講得上面既例子就已經證明你係冇獨立思考既人啦，白痴仔。太得閒冇野做撚下狗先
點解唔深入諗下點解唔識溝女=毒撚?係純粹因為聽得多社會上既stereotype定係個班人真係所謂既”毒”?你講得上面既例子就已經證明你係冇獨立思考既人啦，白痴仔。太得閒冇野做撚下狗先
你真係好弱智
一邊叫人唔好標籤人
結果自己做埋d野一鳩樣
我係咪毒撚都唔影響你講野冇pt
一邊叫人唔好標籤人
結果自己做埋d野一鳩樣
我係咪毒撚都唔影響你講野冇pt
我自己過去就係佢講既人
我有冇諗過先講你又知？洗唔洗寫曬論文先可以樣達自己意見？
你中意咪話我係毒撚
都係果句 唔影響我既論點
我有冇諗過先講你又知？洗唔洗寫曬論文先可以樣達自己意見？
你中意咪話我係毒撚
都係果句 唔影響我既論點
唔好以為為毒撚出聲會有光環啦
我唔覺得毒撚有咩問題
唔肯改先係問題
而你 同一開始果個笑人係毒撚既果個人冇分別
我唔覺得毒撚有咩問題
唔肯改先係問題
而你 同一開始果個笑人係毒撚既果個人冇分別
毒撚既定義 係心態上
並唔係包括你既外表,有無女
有女既都可以係毒
Needy=毒撚性格 溝到女但感情可能唔stable
Needy+自戀=心態毒 好似我咁 難會有女
Non-needy+自戀=通常會係player 多女但係唔會有真摯既感情
本是同生根 相煎何太急
點解毒撚都要批鬥毒撚
並唔係包括你既外表,有無女
有女既都可以係毒
Needy=毒撚性格 溝到女但感情可能唔stable
Needy+自戀=心態毒 好似我咁 難會有女
Non-needy+自戀=通常會係player 多女但係唔會有真摯既感情
本是同生根 相煎何太急
點解毒撚都要批鬥毒撚
好撚同意 好似我朋友帶假勞但又會買真錶
佢自己經常會話人或懷疑人地係咪戴假錶or 用假野
其實呢啲人內心好撚自卑同黑暗
混水摸魚 以假亂真 但假錶一眼都睇到 仲要係rolex
佢自己經常會話人或懷疑人地係咪戴假錶or 用假野
其實呢啲人內心好撚自卑同黑暗
混水摸魚 以假亂真 但假錶一眼都睇到 仲要係rolex
留名學野
btw 我前幾日正正就係買左 The subtle art of not giving fuck
真係幾好睇
真係幾好睇
你冇一條公式有好結果咁wo
家陣係佢想挑機
一邊幫毒撚講好說話 一邊又用毒撚呢個詞黎攻擊我
我只係對事
毒撚既性格本身就係難有女 令仔既毒撚可以有女 因為女溝佢 所以佢都可以係唔識溝女
咁當然有例外 但呢個世界本身就係用多數去界定果個詞語
我唔明話毒撚唔識溝女有咩問題
係個八婆中意挑機
家陣係佢想挑機
一邊幫毒撚講好說話 一邊又用毒撚呢個詞黎攻擊我
我只係對事
毒撚既性格本身就係難有女 令仔既毒撚可以有女 因為女溝佢 所以佢都可以係唔識溝女
咁當然有例外 但呢個世界本身就係用多數去界定果個詞語
我唔明話毒撚唔識溝女有咩問題
係個八婆中意挑機
理解能力都有問題
冇攻擊過你，已經好客氣
冇攻擊過你，已經好客氣
我都唔係攻擊你
不過你係白痴仔咁解
同女人講道理真係好撚難
講野冇pt都算 佢永遠無視你既pt
自己講就得 人地講就唔得
仲要連自己講過既野都唔記得
不過你係白痴仔咁解
同女人講道理真係好撚難
講野冇pt都算 佢永遠無視你既pt
自己講就得 人地講就唔得
仲要連自己講過既野都唔記得
You can’t fake vulnerability and you can’t fake honesty.
女人既第六感 係對你既emotion 好sensitive
你覺得自己fake到佢
扮到唔理佢？
但係你一豎起尾 佢就知道係想溝佢
其實唔係一個大問題
問題就係我地太驚暴露自己嘅弱點
成日盡量諗有d 好有假設性問題 令佢覺得好有趣
搵一d好好笑既故事
用一d大話引起佢地注意力
佢地好快就知道你over-invest, therefore needy
You cannot fake non-neediness for more than a moment.
只有醉酒或者needy 既女女先會受溝
Vulnerability 基於誠實(honesty)
而誠實(honesty) 基於unconditional
Unconditional！？即係做兵仔啦
認真諗諗 做兵仔既人 佢地做既野真係unconditional？
佢地買野比女 條女講咩都附和同讚佢
所有野都唔係unconditional
佢地既目的都係 唔想條女唔好唔理佢
Human nature is such that we don’t trust people until we feel like we earned it.
你都明白如果有人無啦啦送好多野做好多野 你都會覺得
“OK, what’s this guy selling?”
Or maybe, if he was particularly pushy and weird,
“Jesus, is this guy an ax murderer?”
女女只會覺得你奇奇怪怪同可憐
“The only value I have to offer as a man is money and compliments. I have nothing else going for me.”
好人卡同錢只係你手上唯一嘅一張底牌
你可以做以上任何野
永遠永遠check 你背後既intention
只要你個動機係出於desperation
所有野變晒質
These are not gifts or compliments at all. These are deals he’s brokering.
其實所有付出同愛意
desperate既男人都係有諗過return
呢d所謂既禮物並唔係 unconditional.
只係希望條女唔好唔應佢
所有所謂嘅讚美嘅目的只有一個
就係希望條女鐘意佢
好人同自戀其實分別唔大
One only gives. The other only takes.
都係出於desperation
高質女女好快就收你皮 呢d男大佢地見得多
唔值得時間浪費
當你俾人拒絕
你就會覺得嬲 佢一定係貪錢 一定係雞 lying whore 一定係自己唔夠靚仔
你咁撚on9都溝到女既話
呢d都係貪你錢同埋貪needy
呢個唔洗多講啦 近排好多單新聞
究竟乜嘢係honesty?
An attractive man expresses his interest unconditionally, expecting nothing in return.
呢個會令女女濕晒 我自己都扯晒旗
True honesty is only possible when it is unconditional.
The truth is only the truth when it is given as a gift —when nothing is expected in return.
當我讚一條女嘅時候 我無諗過return
究竟佢係會reject我 定係同我一齊
係嗰個moment係唔重要
我係純粹express my feeling
當你讚女女嘅時候
我唔介意之後disagree with her
被佢reject 同walk away from her
This willingness to walk away from her and this ability to accept nothing in return is what gives my genuine interest so much value.
其實女人並唔係男人不壞女人不愛
When a compliment comes from a man seeking nothing in return, it’s a gift of truth, a piece of his vulnerability and infinitely more powerful as a result.
好多女女成日都俾人讚
而大部份啲讚賞都係基於neediness
目的只有一個: 就係你要做我條女或者你同我扑嘢
Beautiful women have been conditioned for most of their lives to know when a man is being genuine or not, whether the compliment is a gift or a bartering tool.
And when it is a gift, when it is honest, she recognizes and appreciates a man who genuinely appreciates her. These men are rare.
女人係鐘意比人認同 所有人都係
男人好少比呢d
真心同unconditional認同感比女女
因為佢哋背後嘅目的通常都係
想你做我條女or呃蝦條
佢地對呢d野好反感
所以唔好再講咩 女人不壞男人不愛
女人既第六感 係對你既emotion 好sensitive
你覺得自己fake到佢
扮到唔理佢？
但係你一豎起尾 佢就知道係想溝佢
其實唔係一個大問題
問題就係我地太驚暴露自己嘅弱點
成日盡量諗有d 好有假設性問題 令佢覺得好有趣
搵一d好好笑既故事
用一d大話引起佢地注意力
佢地好快就知道你over-invest, therefore needy
You cannot fake non-neediness for more than a moment.
只有醉酒或者needy 既女女先會受溝
Vulnerability 基於誠實(honesty)
而誠實(honesty) 基於unconditional
Unconditional！？即係做兵仔啦
認真諗諗 做兵仔既人 佢地做既野真係unconditional？
佢地買野比女 條女講咩都附和同讚佢
所有野都唔係unconditional
佢地既目的都係 唔想條女唔好唔理佢
Human nature is such that we don’t trust people until we feel like we earned it.
你都明白如果有人無啦啦送好多野做好多野 你都會覺得
“OK, what’s this guy selling?”
Or maybe, if he was particularly pushy and weird,
“Jesus, is this guy an ax murderer?”
女女只會覺得你奇奇怪怪同可憐
“The only value I have to offer as a man is money and compliments. I have nothing else going for me.”
好人卡同錢只係你手上唯一嘅一張底牌
你可以做以上任何野
永遠永遠check 你背後既intention
只要你個動機係出於desperation
所有野變晒質
These are not gifts or compliments at all. These are deals he’s brokering.
其實所有付出同愛意
desperate既男人都係有諗過return
呢d所謂既禮物並唔係 unconditional.
只係希望條女唔好唔應佢
所有所謂嘅讚美嘅目的只有一個
就係希望條女鐘意佢
好人同自戀其實分別唔大
One only gives. The other only takes.
都係出於desperation
高質女女好快就收你皮 呢d男大佢地見得多
唔值得時間浪費
當你俾人拒絕
你就會覺得嬲 佢一定係貪錢 一定係雞 lying whore 一定係自己唔夠靚仔
你咁撚on9都溝到女既話
呢d都係貪你錢同埋貪needy
呢個唔洗多講啦 近排好多單新聞
究竟乜嘢係honesty?
An attractive man expresses his interest unconditionally, expecting nothing in return.
呢個會令女女濕晒 我自己都扯晒旗
True honesty is only possible when it is unconditional.
The truth is only the truth when it is given as a gift —when nothing is expected in return.
當我讚一條女嘅時候 我無諗過return
究竟佢係會reject我 定係同我一齊
係嗰個moment係唔重要
我係純粹express my feeling
當你讚女女嘅時候
我唔介意之後disagree with her
被佢reject 同walk away from her
This willingness to walk away from her and this ability to accept nothing in return is what gives my genuine interest so much value.
其實女人並唔係男人不壞女人不愛
When a compliment comes from a man seeking nothing in return, it’s a gift of truth, a piece of his vulnerability and infinitely more powerful as a result.
好多女女成日都俾人讚
而大部份啲讚賞都係基於neediness
目的只有一個: 就係你要做我條女或者你同我扑嘢
Beautiful women have been conditioned for most of their lives to know when a man is being genuine or not, whether the compliment is a gift or a bartering tool.
And when it is a gift, when it is honest, she recognizes and appreciates a man who genuinely appreciates her. These men are rare.
女人係鐘意比人認同 所有人都係
男人好少比呢d
真心同unconditional認同感比女女
因為佢哋背後嘅目的通常都係
想你做我條女or呃蝦條
佢地對呢d野好反感
所以唔好再講咩 女人不壞男人不愛
呢段我睇到扯晒旗
我自己就試過有一次
約過一個岩岩識既女仔食飯
因我同佢係whatsapp好好傾 大家都秒回
出街過程我都扮到好唔care
其實內心好desperate
食完飯之後
有個男仔打比佢話 約佢睇戲
個一刻我好sad 當我認為自己扮到無野
但佢已經feel到 咦你係一個幾jealous既人
之後緊係開始已讀不回
開始覺得我煩 鬧我
最深刻個句係 you have a weak mental state
最後block埋
當然個一刻我好嬲 果然係死港女 gold digger
佢可能純粹想玩9我
但無論如點都好 如果我係一個non needy就可能已經溝到佢
就算溝唔到都唔會唔開心
我自己就試過有一次
約過一個岩岩識既女仔食飯
因我同佢係whatsapp好好傾 大家都秒回
出街過程我都扮到好唔care
其實內心好desperate
食完飯之後
有個男仔打比佢話 約佢睇戲
個一刻我好sad 當我認為自己扮到無野
但佢已經feel到 咦你係一個幾jealous既人
之後緊係開始已讀不回
開始覺得我煩 鬧我
最深刻個句係 you have a weak mental state
最後block埋
當然個一刻我好嬲 果然係死港女 gold digger
佢可能純粹想玩9我
但無論如點都好 如果我係一個non needy就可能已經溝到佢
就算溝唔到都唔會唔開心
點解我冇一早睇到。。 。巴打睇睇我最新打個段