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30歲以上單身女會點找對象？
華可可
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我地係玩開狼人殺、風聲、阿瓦隆果d
有條件既男人，無論20歲到80歲，目標都係2x歲既青春美女。30歲既老女人，覺得自己有乜條件爭贏d靚妹
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30K以下人工既毒撚點找對象？
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Honestly I haven’t seen many successful cases. Almost all of my “decent” male friends in late 20s - mid 30s have all settled / married ladies that are ~25-27 years in age. I do not have a single example of any of them marrying someone “new” from 30+. Of course, I’m limiting the population to my “decent” guy friends only.
There is just no point for a successful, attractive, capable and decent men in their 30s to meet and settle for a lady 30+. The market, especially in HK, is super efficient, and there is a deep assumption that if a lady is a good catch herself, there should be a minimal chance that she is still single and available into her 30s. All the excuses about not “meeting the right person” or “all the right men are taken” are (pardon me) bullshit. HK is one of the densest cities in the world and you can easily meet 30-50 people friends per year if you just gave a bit of effort. There is simply no convincing excuse.
Most of the 30+ single friends in my circle (attractive, nice figure, income >100k+ HKD/month, owns own property etc) have either
1) married a foreigner (some much older and not very attractive, honestly speaking)
2) adopted pets / surrogate children to raise on their own (don’t need men)
3) 100% focused on work
4) one-night stands at random places / countries with physically attractive men
5) Have started to date much younger men to expand their target population
Happy to talk more in private if you wish - not here to judge at all, just giving you my honest experience and observations.
Good luck!
There is just no point for a successful, attractive, capable and decent men in their 30s to meet and settle for a lady 30+. The market, especially in HK, is super efficient, and there is a deep assumption that if a lady is a good catch herself, there should be a minimal chance that she is still single and available into her 30s. All the excuses about not “meeting the right person” or “all the right men are taken” are (pardon me) bullshit. HK is one of the densest cities in the world and you can easily meet 30-50 people friends per year if you just gave a bit of effort. There is simply no convincing excuse.
Most of the 30+ single friends in my circle (attractive, nice figure, income >100k+ HKD/month, owns own property etc) have either
1) married a foreigner (some much older and not very attractive, honestly speaking)
2) adopted pets / surrogate children to raise on their own (don’t need men)
3) 100% focused on work
4) one-night stands at random places / countries with physically attractive men
5) Have started to date much younger men to expand their target population
Happy to talk more in private if you wish - not here to judge at all, just giving you my honest experience and observations.
Good luck!
不嬲都係自欺欺人既諗法
而家男人長唔大要人照顧囉
咁即係一樣米養樣百樣人囉
人人鍾意既對象都唔同
有男人鍾意年紀大d 有d鍾意細d
有咩好批評..
人人鍾意既對象都唔同
有男人鍾意年紀大d 有d鍾意細d
有咩好批評..
1999 
我有遇過唔等於我 say yes 嘅，open mind.
我只係覺得，每個人有自己的故事，幸與不幸，叻定唔叻，就算我搵唔到一個對自己好的人因為我蠢都好，你搵唔到錢咪一樣，每一個故事，每一個人都唔會係完美的，我地都只係平凡人，可能你唔係，但我一定係囉。
我從來無要求對方要有咩野，錢，職位。有人儲唔到錢係因為要養屋企，都有人賺好多但對你度到盡，有人因爲唔快樂的過去而錯過重要的人。比起去批判，更想去聽人地的故事。
反而，我想招下想一齊搵下對象的絲打，去下活動好，傾訴下以前的經歷又好。
我只係覺得，每個人有自己的故事，幸與不幸，叻定唔叻，就算我搵唔到一個對自己好的人因為我蠢都好，你搵唔到錢咪一樣，每一個故事，每一個人都唔會係完美的，我地都只係平凡人，可能你唔係，但我一定係囉。
我從來無要求對方要有咩野，錢，職位。有人儲唔到錢係因為要養屋企，都有人賺好多但對你度到盡，有人因爲唔快樂的過去而錯過重要的人。比起去批判，更想去聽人地的故事。
反而，我想招下想一齊搵下對象的絲打，去下活動好，傾訴下以前的經歷又好。
剛與拍拖七年男友分手不久，由於一直都做乖女人斷哂同任何男人既私交，份人又摺又毒，淨係識上連登搜尋group、谷、tg等關鍵字去識下新朋友仔
去過speed dating但唔多work，一晚廿個男人來來去去每日講幾分鐘，根本毫無印象；Tinder、coffee meets bagel又睇樣行先（太靚仔唔咁like，太樣衰唔想like），好困難...
身邊好男人真係都已經結哂婚或有女友，其實都幾sad。
點解要飛我呀！
